Tottie loves romance!

It really is an honor to be a part of such a profound and fun time in people’s lives. I am a self-confessed romantic and simply adore being in the presence of two people who are so connected that they know they want to share their lives with each other. Mix this with my experience in radio, my extensive work as a Master of Ceremonies and my years as a live performer, I am completely at home in this role.

Tottie Goldsmith | Civil Celebrant


I really enjoy helping you to create a ceremony that represents who you are as a couple and what you believe in. It is deep in my nature to help put you at ease so you can relax as much as possible to enjoy this important and delicious day. I will work with you as a resource and help you identify ways to express your values and individual style to create your perfect ceremony.

Millie & Easton Jones 

Tottie Goldsmith is an incredible Wedding Celebrant who made our special day unforgettable. 

She was organized, detail-oriented yet calming as we moved through the unfamiliar waters of getting married. 

Tottie was genuinely invested in understanding our love story, so as to create a ceremony that felt personal, authentic and reflected who we are as individuals, and as a couple.

On the day, one of the standout qualities, was her ability to infuse joy and laughter, effortlessly transitioning between the fun and more formal aspects of the ceremony striking a perfect balance of humour with reverence. 

It wouldn’t have been the same without you.

Jon Stevens


Totties infectious energy and charismatic personality set the tone for the entire event, ensuring that every moment was filled with laughter, love, and a genuine sense of celebration.

She managed to strike the perfect balance between engaging the crowd and ensuring the focus remained on the love and commitment being celebrated. It's not an easy task, but she handled it with grace and charisma.

Her attention to detail was impeccable, from coordinating with other vendors to managing the timeline with precision. The entire evening flowed seamlessly so we could relax and enjoy every moment,

Her ability to bring joy and professionalism together is truly unparalleled, and I wholeheartedly recommend her services to any couple seeking a emcee for their wedding who goes above and beyond to make their celebration extraordinary. 

My daughter’s wedding day wouldn't have been the same without her.

Certified  funeral celebrant 

After officiating many funerals for friends and family it was clear to me that being of service and helping them create the perfect farewell was not only an honour but felt like an important role in my life. 

A funeral is really a healing ritual to help us deal with the loss of someone we love and fortunately the traditional funeral theme is transforming to give families a more empowering experience. 

I am here to assist  you in creating a modern and meaningful funeral and to make a real and positive impact during what is possibly the hardest time in your life.

 

We cannot, after all, judge a biography by its length, by the number of pages in it; we must judge by the richness of the contents.... Sometimes the "unfinisheds" are among the most beautiful symphonies.

Emil Frankl

  • The funeral for Rickie was a man who had lived a full and long life… it was a celebration full of music and laughter. Tottie allowed people to applaud and feel part of the service… she handled the spontaneous nature of the family beautifully… two extra people stood up with something to say and she handled it as if it was rolling out exactly as planned.

    Fiona Edelstein

  • I was present at the funeral of Ross Dennerstein. Ross was only 47 years old and passed very suddenly leaving behind his wife and three children. Tottie handled a very challenging situation with great sensitivity. Her service created a cocoon of safety for the family and flowed beautifully.

    Briony Cuvac

Pricing

  • ELOPEMENT: FROM $800

    You download and complete the NOTICE OF INTENDED MARRIAGE DOCUMENT and post to me.

    Performance of a modest ceremony with legal signing in St Kilda mid week.

    Your Commemorative Commonwealth Wedding certificate.

    Lodgement of legal paper work to the government.

    *A 50% deposit is required at time of booking.

    *+$1000 for any time over 1.5 hours

    SILVER PACKAGE: FROM $1600

    Base price: Wedding within 50km of Melbourne CBD.

    Includes:

    Initial meeting

    Rehearsal

    All communication

    Paperwork

    *Additional charges outlined below

    *A 50% deposit is required at time of booking.

    *+$1000 for any time over 1.5 hours

    GOLD PACKAGE: FROM $2600

    The full Tottie experience. :

    Wedding within 50km of Melbourne CBD.

    Includes:

    Initial meeting

    Rehearsal

    All communication

    Paperwork

    Reception MC 1.5 x hours

    *A 50% deposit is required at time of booking.

    *+$1000 for any time over 1.5 hours

    *Additional charges for Silver Package and Gold Package.

    If ceremony is over 50kms (up to 100kms) from CBD: additional $150

    If rehearsal is over 50kms (up to 100kms) from CBD: additional $150

    If ceremony is over 100kms (up to 150kms) from CBD: additional $250

    If rehearsal is over 100kms (up to 150kms) from CBD: additional $250

    If ceremony is over 150kms (up to 150kms) an additional $300 plus approved accommodation.

    If rehearsal is over 150kms (up to 150kms) an additional $300 plus approved accommodation.

    Interstate: Flights, ground transfers and approved accommodation + $650 which includes rehearsal on the day of/or before wedding.

    Marriage certificate: $64 for Marriage Certificate to be ordered by Tottie and sent Registered Post (available within Victoria only).

    Wedding M.C: FROM $2500

    M.C offering is specific to each individual event.

  • Pricing:

    $900 within metropolitan Melbourne.

    POA for outside metropolitan Melbourne.

    *A 50% deposit is required at time of booking.

    *An additional $500 per hour after first hour

 

In The News

Love was well and truly in the air as Virgin Australia hosted its first-ever wedding in the sky. Stunned passengers looked on as Elaine Tiong and Luke Serdar tied the knot on a VA841 flight from Melbourne to Sydney, getting their life together as newlyweds off to a flying start. 

The bride wore white, with a bouquet of red roses, as she walked down the aircraft aisle to her husband-to-be, in front of a plane-load of unsuspecting guests. He was waiting with Australian actress Tottie Goldsmith, who acted as celebrant for the ceremony.

Learn about the process of getting married in Australia